Shelter

These are the things I prize And hold of dearest worth: Light of the sapphire skies, Peace of the silent hills, Shelter of the forests, comfort of the grass, Music of birds, murmur of little rills, Shadows of cloud that swiftly pass, And, after showers, The smell of flowers And of the good brown earth, – And best of all, along the way, friendship and mirth.

Henry Van Dyke

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Hello Friend,

It’s been awhile hasn’t it?

Actually, life got busy with the grandkids, then we had a holiday, and then I lost the entire month of April to the dreaded virus. That part was not fun!

But all is well now, and I’m so glad you dropped in. Let’s have tea on the veranda. Do you mind the rocking chair? Or would you prefer the cushioned wicker chair? It’s been unseasonably warm, but the veranda is neither too hot nor too cold, and refreshing breezes usually waft in.

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Image by Jill Wellington of Pixabay

No matter where you are in the world, you are at home when tea is served.

Earlene Grey

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I love sitting here, especially in the mornings, when I can watch the sun rising in the sky. Since the sun rises earlier and earlier these days, I’m not up in time to see its beginning glow on the horizon, but I do love to watch it flicker through the shimmering poplars and make dancing patterns of light and shadow on the grass as it slowly moves higher and higher in the sky.

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Image by Adrian Campfield from Pixabay 

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I was so happy to get home after our holiday. In fact, I got hit with the virus in the last days of the holiday and everything in me begged to be home. So, when I finally walked through these doors I felt home envelop me. It was my sheltering, safe place to recover.

In our worst moments and situations we seek shelter, don’t we? A place where we can come in out of the storms we’re facing, if only for a moment of restorative peace and contemplation. A place to remember who we are in this chaotic world.

During my illness I got daily texts from Mom and a good friend, and other people checked in by text or message too. They apologized for bothering me, but I found shelter and comfort in their checkup.

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Perhaps love is like a resting place, a shelter from the storm. It exists to give you comfort, it is there to keep you warm, and in those times of trouble when you are most alone, the memory of love will bring you home.

John Denver

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Sometimes, like those not far from my home who have had to escape the devastating wildfires raging in our province, our place of shelter needs to be a physical place. Other times our shelter is a person, someone who understands us to our core. And other times shelter can be found in a memory, a hobby, a piece of music – anything that brings healing to our weary souls.

What I love about this little music video is that you can hear the wind and the storm outside when the young man opens the door to walk in, and for just a few moments there is respite, before heading back out there again. (You may catch his reluctance to leave in the way he touches the piano one last time before walking to the door.)

The truth is we can’t live in a constant state of shelter; we have to live in this world, which is fraught with misunderstandings, storms, and chaos. But isn’t it comforting to know that shelter can eventually be found if you look for it?

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Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.

Matthew 11:28

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It’s been wonderful to visit with you again, thank you so much for stopping in. Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

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Feature Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay 

February Five on Friday

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is.

Albert Einstein

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Hello Friend,

Come in, come in. What a treat to have you stop in! Thank you for braving the cold for this visit.

The last several weeks, those of us who live in these parts have been lured into thinking that Lady Spring is just around the corner when in fact, we’ll be hunkered down with Grandpa Winter for a couple more months at least. Today, like yesterday, it’s bitterly cold out there, but the new snow is making everything look fresh and white, isn’t it?

Come, sit in my favourite chair by the fireplace and I’ll pour the tea. Cream, sugar, and soothing honey are just there on the little table, and please try one or two of the Chocolate Crunchies I made yesterday. They’re a chocolate cookie dipped in sugar, although they didn’t turn out quite like I remember my mom making them. After rolling the dough into balls, you’re supposed to dip one side into sugar. But I wonder if, after rolling the dough into balls, Mom first dipped one side in water and then sugar. That would make it more of a coating than a sprinkle. Either way, they’re a taste of chocolatey goodness with our tea.

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Image by Jill Wellington of Pixabay

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Will you have another cookie? Go ahead and get cozy, and you’re welcome to wrap up in this fleecy blanket. I wanted to share with you five things that have brought me sparks of joy this week.

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ONE

I’ve been contemplating how our windows are perfectly positioned for sunrises, which gently sweep across my bookshelves and tiptoe across the floor out the double doors of my library. In the living room they touch Grandpa’s old secretary desk, turning it a warm golden brown.

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TWO

The Cowboy and I recently got home from one week looking after three grandsons, two provinces away. They are busy boys and we loved being with them. Such a contrast to our quiet lives at home. It’s delightful to be swept up in the doings and shenanigans of young boys, and then satisfying to return home again. I have to admit that the first thing I did upon walking in our door was to sit down in my library and smile at my bookshelves. I could swear they smiled back, as if to say where have you been? We missed you.

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In a good bookroom you feel that in some mysterious way you are absorbing the wisdom contained in all the books through your skin without even opening them.

Mark Twain

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THREE

I’ve joined the local quilting club. I can’t always make it, but once a week almost two dozen quilters meet in the village hall. We each bring our own sewing machines and current projects. We set up a network of long tables end to end and face to face, and space ourselves out next to and across from each other, sharing extension cords that snake their way to the nearest outlet. It’s a comfortable time of sharing lives and ideas; spending the day learning from each other while doing something we all love to do. Once a month we collectively work on a Comfort Quilt, which is eventually given to someone in the community who is hurting. Last month 13 Comfort Quilts were given away and, according to the most recent club minutes, there are 30 in inventory.

I’m working on a baby-girl quilt that I started years ago. It’s for nobody in particular. I only wanted to work on something girly after all the boys’ quilts I’ve made recently.

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FOUR

We live near a little village on the lake. Many people live there year round, but in the summer it swells with cottagers and campers. It was pretty deserted when I drove through it on my way to Quilt Club this week, and I couldn’t resist stopping for a photo of the ice-cream shop and boat rental. Closed for the season, of course, but charming nonetheless. I think the reason I stopped may have had something to do with the light.

There is a beauty in the depth of winter. The light in February is like no other light I can think of during the rest of the year. Some days it is bright, cheerful, encouraging me with its happiness despite the cold. Other times it is airy and delicate, as though emanating through a filmy sheer fabric.

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What is life? It is the flash of a firefly in the night. It is the breath of a buffalo in the wintertime. It is the little shadow which runs across the grass and loses itself in the sunset.

Crowfoot

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FIVE

Without musicians there is no magic.

Jan Willem de With

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This piece of music is so soothing for a February day. I find it is best appreciated with eyes closed. Listen to each piano note as though it were a perfect pearl, strung on the four interwoven silky threads of the string music.

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Wasn’t that enchanting? Thank you so much for the visit today, it was lovely to have your company. Stay safe out there and see you next time.

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Feature Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay

A January Daybook

Sit for a spell

and remember why today

joyful or bittersweet,

is more alive

than any other day.

Paola Merrill – The Cottage Fairy Companion

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Hello Friend,

So happy to see you on this wintry day, please come in and sit by the fire. These chairs are positioned perfectly to take in the winter wonderland out there. Isn’t it magical? Like living in a snow globe.

Let’s see, I still have the fragrant White Christmas tea that was gifted to me. I think you’ll enjoy it: white tea with vanilla and almond flavours.

And here are some of the peppernuts Mom made over Christmas. They’re little, so take more than one. If you’re not familiar with peppernuts, you might want to check them out here. I’ve discovered that there are many variations of the Peppernut recipe. Ours are crunchy on the outside but soft inside. For my friends outside of Canada who cannot get Rogers Golden Syrup, apparently there’s something similar called Lyle’s Golden Syrup in the US. I believe it might be called light treacle in the UK. Elsewhere, the suggestion is to use some kind of cane syrup. And here’s something interesting … you can actually buy it on Amazon, but it’s costly!

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Image by Ylanite Koppens from Pixabay

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Outside my window …

The days are really lovely, sunrises especially. Lately, the sunrises have been my favourite colour of pink – what I call sky blue pink. Against the white fluffiness of the trees, it’s almost too much to take in. Photos don’t do it justice but I can’t help taking them anyway.

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I am wearing …

Black pants, peach coloured top, the grandmother/granddaughter necklace Sweet Thing gave me for Christmas, and my rose gold bracelet with the grandchildren charms.

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Sometimes I need only to stand wherever I am to be blessed.

Mary Oliver

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This week I learned …

That there’s a difference between hoar frost and rime frost. I’d never heard of rime frost before. Had you? Apparently, that’s what we experienced this week. For one thing, hoar frost develops under clear skies and rime frost is the result of low clouds and foggy conditions. It’s heavier and looks more like droplets. Hoar frost is feather-like and easily blown away. Rime frost lasts longer.

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It was a fairy world I looked out upon. During the night, the frost had cast its spell over the woods and glades of the New Forest. This morning, every branch and twig bore a pearly burden of hoar-frost.

Flora Thompson, The Peverel Papers, January 1921 – from Nature Writing for Every Day of the Year

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I am wondering …

How are you wintering? Does it hang heavy over you like a weighted blanket? Or, can you look past what might seem dark and dreary, look smaller, look closer, and see the tiniest of miracles? I remember when a young friend came to stay with us for awhile. She was from the southern US and didn’t often see snow. She was in awe when she could actually see each individual snowflake as it landed on her dark jacket. One tiny miracle after another, each one evoking wonder.

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I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.

G.K. Chesterton

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New in my library …

A couple of beautiful books I couldn’t resist:

A Fine Romance, Falling in Love with the English Countryside by Susan Branch – why have I never heard of this book before? It’s Susan’s beautifully handwritten (!!) journal of the two months she and her husband spent wandering England in 2012. It includes photos & quotes, recipes & travel tips, and, of course, the Susan Branch artwork we’ve all come to love. I’m taking my time leafing through it. It’s a book to savour.

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Time is such a funny thing; one minute it’s forever & the next, it’s gone.

Susan Branch – A Fine Romance

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The other book, Nature Writing for Every Day of the Year, edited by Jane McMorland Hunter, is meant to be read slowly. As in, a whole year. From the back cover: Enjoy a whole year of the very finest nature writing with one carefully selected piece for each day, spanning the centuries … Encompassing fact and fiction, essays, field guides, letters and diaries, it’s the perfect way to help your mind escape into the world of nature every day.

It is a restful pause in every day.

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In the sewing room …

It’s a bit of an untidy mess. But, a new blanket is shaping up for a grandboy soon to turn five. Imagine fabrics in solid reds and print reds – red being his favourite colour – with lots of trucks and cars and working vehicles thrown in, and even a couple of cows. Little Munch loves cows.

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I am listening to …

The Kanneh-Mason family. I recently happened upon them in a playlist on Spotify, and then looked them up. They are seven siblings from Nottingham, England, ranging in age from 26-13. They all play either cello, violin, or piano, or a combination, and are all accomplished solo and concert musicians. Their mother has written an award-winning book, House of Music – Raising the Kanneh-Masons. She must be quite the woman…

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Closing Notes …

Thank you for stopping in on this January day and listening to me ramble. Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

Once Upon a December

Perhaps our planet is for learning to appreciate the extraordinary wonder of life that surrounds even our suffering, and to say Yes, if through the thickest of tears.

Alice Walker [Barracoon, Foreword]

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Hello Friend

How nice to see you! Please come in and hang your wraps by the door.

It seems the perfect day for lemon ginger tea, doesn’t it? I’ve been feeling a tiny bit under the weather, but lots of people out there are really sick with long-lasting colds, fevers, and sore throats. Just thinking about that sends me for the lemon tea. Add a little honey and it’s the perfect soothing nectar.

My cousin and dear friend gave us a Christmas tin of her homemade Old Fashioned Almond Crunch the other day. Perfect complement to lemon ginger tea, don’t you think? Please help yourself. I know you won’t be able to take just one.

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Image by Silvia from Pixabay

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Old Fashioned Almond Crunch

1 cup butter (not margarine)
1-1/4 cups white sugar
2 Tablespoons corn syrup
2 Tablespoons water

Cook over medium heat to 300 degrees F (hard crack stage), stirring constantly. Remove from heat and immediately stir in 1 cup toasted almonds.

Pour into foil-lined cookie sheet, and sprinkle 1 cup chocolate chips. Let stand 5 minutes, then spread with the back of a spoon. Sprinkle with finely chopped almonds. Cool, break into pieces. 
Enjoy!

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I’m taking my time with Christmas decorating this year. Other years I’ve pressed through it all with driven gusto, trying to meet the goals I’d set for myself; trying to make our home perfect for the season. This year, my nervous system can’t seem to handle the same busyness and stress. And, it’s also taking some thought to decide how I want the decor to go in this new home, using all of the old Christmas decorations.

I’ve always loved the preparations for Christmas, whether I go all out or just set out a few things. Quite by accident, The Cowboy brought in the ‘wrong’ tree to set up. It wasn’t the newer one, the one that is tall and pre-lit and goes together in three easy steps. No, it’s the thirty-year-old one we used when our girls were young. Every branch needs to be placed in the right spot and then fluffed out to resemble a real tree. At first I dreaded the time-consuming chore, but as I worked on it, the memories of past years decorating the tree as a family, came quickly. Putting up the tree branch by branch, and carefully hanging long-loved ornaments became a sweet task.

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Yet, in some instances the memories were bittersweet. Today, on the day of this writing, it is the 26th anniversary of the death of The Cowboy’s best friend – his dad. It was unexpected and shocking. The girls were so young when they lost their beloved Grandpa: eleven, nine, and four at the time. In the middle of Christmas preparations and school programs, a funeral was planned, family gatherings were shuffled and reorganized. And we celebrated Christmas without Dad.

Now my cousins are going through the same thing, as I got news that my uncle passed away yesterday. He was diagnosed less than a month ago, and suddenly he’s gone. We can’t prepare for everything, can we?

The arrival of December and the Christmas season doesn’t mean that hurt and suffering suddenly take a break. And this year, it seems the whole world is suffering as we all try to get back to some sense of ‘normal.’

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Most of the world’s citizens are in need of a little extra TLC at the moment. Most are donning invisible “Handle with care” posters around their necks and “Fragile” tattoos on their bodies … Instead of racing to the finish line of this year, tread gently. Go slowly.

Naomi Holdt – Psychologist and Speaker

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Image by Frauke Riether from Pixabay

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Have you ever noticed that some of the most beautiful music is written in a minor key? Several of my favourite Christmas songs are in minor keys. O Come O Come Emmanuel, What Child Is This?, Mary, Did You Know? to name just a few. It’s the minor key that makes them heart-tugging and poignant. The tune stays with one for a long time. They have a certain sweetness not present in songs written in a major key.

Could it be that the struggles we wade through make this fragile life more beautiful? Perhaps through the lens of our sorrow and pain we see with more depth and clarity, more wonder. Sunrises, with their soft peaches and pastel pinks, seem brighter. More brilliant. And it takes a breath to realize …

They always were.

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Image by Pascal Laurent from Pixabay

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So glad you stopped in today amid your own busy preparations for Christmas. In case I don’t see you again before, I wish you a Merry Christmas Season with lots of hope and beauty, though it may at times be written in a minor key.

Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

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I heard a bird sing in the dark of December.

A magical thing. And sweet to remember.

We are nearer to Spring than we were in September.

I heard a bird sing in the dark of December.

Oliver Herford

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In the depth of winter, I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer.

Albert Camus

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Featured Image by Marko from Pixabay