Sanctuarium

He alone is my rock and my salvation, my stronghold; I will never be shaken.

Psalm 62:2

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Hello Friend.

It’s been a while since our last visit.

Life has been a little busy around here, but I always love when you drop by. Here in my little corner of the world, the snow has begun. First, specks so tiny you wondered where the white on the ground was coming from. Then big flakes, like crumbs of sticky cake floating and falling.

Now, the ground lies under a heavy mantle that whiffs and whirls in the white wind. It’s the perfect cozy afternoon for tea and apple pie. I’ll pour while you choose a slice, or two.

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Image from Pixabay

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You know that little piece of property I told you about? I’ve been writing about our journey with it. Would you be interested in following along?

Get comfortable and let me read you what I’ve got so far.

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Image from Pixabay

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On this visit, we turn into the approach and immediately my eyes go to the new driveway. It inclines and wraps around … what? That pile of dirt there that’s the foundation for the garage? Anyway, the driveway is new on this visit.

We snap photos and videos that pan the length of our property while Excavator Ben delicately picks up rocks the size of my dining room table with his bucket, and places them precisely – oh so precisely – one on top of another to build a retaining wall. He uses that bucket like fingers and thumb, gingerly lifting rocks as though they were mere pebbles and not thousand-pound boulders. I stand mesmerized and watch him work. This is an exceptional skill, I realize, and as I look at Ben’s face through the large windows of the cab enclosure I see … he loves his job.

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The rocks have come from The Land itself, dug up to make room for a walk-out basement. There are hundreds of these boulders, and even more below the dig level. One of the excavators tells us we will have a solid foundation; that once built, this house won’t move. We are building on rock.

My mind turns to the Sunday School song I learned as a child … The wise man built his house upon a rock … and the house on the rock stood firm. As a child, I didn’t know that the rock in the song is symbolic: God, the solid rock on which to anchor a life.

That day in 2013, when we first set eyes on the place, there were hints of what lay below the rolling green that covered almost three acres. They were stacked at the door of the big shop built by the previous owner, and walled up to make a flowerbed. There were flat, shale-like crests here and there, skimming the lawn.

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But we didn’t really pay attention to that at the time. We only wanted to know, was this The Land that God had asked us to purchase? I went for a walk in the little wood on the property, and when I emerged I knew, with the same certainty I’d known on November 4, 2008 that I’d heard the whisper, We need to buy land.

Yes, after months of searching, this was it.

So we bought it, not knowing if we were meant to live there or just hold onto it. Because when the faithful Rock to whom you’ve anchored your life asks something of you, you do it.

We took care of it and enjoyed it; we shared it and prayed over it. We loved it. One day, we sensed we’d been given permission to build a home. And not just a home, but a sanctuary; a safe place for weary and wounded souls to breathe before continuing on their personal journeys.

This has always been the dream.

Only, we didn’t know that the rocks would be part of it.

What to do with all those rocks! Excavator Ben built a retaining wall. And The Cowboy had ideas for the rest of them: rock gardens and strategically placed barriers around the perimeter of the property. Slowly it began to dawn on us that rocks have a significant meaning for this place. This is not coincidental. It’s a beautiful interweaving design of symbolism and safety.

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For He will conceal me in His shelter in the day of adversity; He will hide me under the cover of His tent; He will set me high on a rock.

Psalm 27:5

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The Cowboy was telling friends about this momentous realization one day when they visited the skeleton of the house soon to be a home; how we’ve been drawn to the story of Moses being placed in the cleft of the rock and covered by God’s hand while God passed by. Imagine, he said, what it must have been like to be covered by God’s hand, there, in the safety of the rock. So warm and safe. The safest you’ve ever felt. He told them about how our dream for this place is Sanctuary for all who enter. Built on rock, surrounded by rock – a safe place.

That’s when I knew we’d found the name we’d been searching for. The name for this sanctuary. It’s The Cleft. And if those who come to it find a little bit of the warmth and safety that Moses must have felt in the shelter of God’s hand, our dream for this place will have been realized.

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Thanks for coming along on this journey today. Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

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Then the LORD said, “Behold, there is a place by Me, and you shall stand there on the rock; and it will come about, while My glory is passing by, that I will put you in the cleft of the rock and cover you with My hand until I have passed by.

Exodus 33:21-22

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Featured Image by Karl Egger from Pixabay 

The Simple Woman’s Daybook – September

Another fall, another turned page: there was something of jubilee in that annual autumnal beginning, as if last year’s mistakes had been wiped clean by summer.

Wallace Stegner

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“Another turned page”. That’s what September has always been for me. A chance to start fresh, like the freshness of the air breezing into the house through my open windows. A chance to make new plans and goals. Regroup. Pivot. Check. Ask God for what He expects of my life going forward.

In truth, September usually turns out to be busier than I want it to be. Fall activities like winterizing the trailer, readying the garden and yard for its winter slumber, getting back into household routines, meetings, and volunteer activities … these take up precious minutes that I’d rather spend in tranquil reflection. But life isn’t like that, is it?

So I snatch these quiet moments to reflect and recenter myself; to look for the truly important, the beautiful, and what brings me joy.

Hello Friend,

How was your summer? I’m so glad you stopped in today. It’s been a hectic few months and about time we had a good visit. I’m offering tea and cupcakes; tea brewed by me, cupcakes baked by a specialist. Please help yourself.

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Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay 

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For Today

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Looking out my window …

Is an expanse of green surrounded by rustling trees, under a September blue sky. We’ve come out to our small slice of property where we keep a vacation trailer. It’s quiet. So quiet. The land, the trees, the sky, the quiet. All little pieces of heaven. At the edge of our boundary, the neighbour’s vegetable garden sits idle. Normally I’d see her in her garden about this time of year, harvesting her potatoes and carrots, but they moved away in the summer, so never planted in the spring.

I am thinking …

That I’m so glad we got our wedding well done this summer. Our province has just moved into new restrictions because of rising hospitalizations, and the wedding we had in August would not be possible now. It was a beautiful day, Babe was a gorgeous bride, and I got many wonderful comments on my fascinator.

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I am thankful …

For The Cowboy. Two personalities could not be more different than he and I are. I’m pretty sure that, had we had access to one of those dating sites before we ever met 43 years ago, we would never have been put together. For example, as I sit here reflecting and writing about the quiet, he has just fired up the power washer and is proceeding to wash down the very trailer in which I sit meditating. I can only laugh at the irony. I’m convinced that it is our differences which keep this marriage so very interesting and fun. He has expanded my horizons in ways I could never have imagined all those years ago. Yes, I am indeed so very thankful for him.

I am wearing …

Black capris, white and black-striped V-neck top with ruffles at the elbows, gold earrings.

I am reading …

Roots and Sky by Christie Purifoy. This quote from page 33 made me cry:

We fool ourselves if we believe that life is the tedium of our to-do lists broken up by occasional highs … and occasional lows … Everyday life is utterly extravagant. It is morning glories we did not plant. It is four children we did nothing to deserve. It is moonlight and starlight, rainbow-coloured leaves and autumn rain. It is the shelter of trees, the songs of birds, and the enduring sight of a farmhouse on a hill. It is more beautiful than it needs to be. It is more meaningful than we can begin to comprehend.

Chrisite Purifoy, Roots and Sky

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I am listening to …

https://youtu.be/DMa3tBH4hpg

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I am hoping …

To start a new blog thread that focuses on our brand new house-build. I need to document this journey, and it’s been a long one even before the diggers go into the ground. If you don’t mind, I will share that journey here at times, mixed in with our other visits.

To give you a taste, the expanse of green I mentioned earlier will give way for the house we’ve been dreaming. Yes, it’s finally time to take that dream off the shelf, permanently. Exactly a year ago I wrote about keeping dreams on a shelf, at Dreams and Other Burdens.

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It’s exciting and a little bittersweet, this dream, and it’s why that expanse of green is so precious to me in this moment. I’ve captured many images of it in my mind and digitally, so I can go back and remember …

Which brings me to what I am learning …

To capture moments – snapshots – in my mind more than on any device or camera. Instead of preserving for the future from behind a lens, I’m choosing to be present in the moment; to open new pathways in my brain where I consciously store these memories. What a wonder.

Closing Notes …

I hope you are enjoying the extravagant Septemberness of September in your little corner of the world. Thank you so much for the visit today.

Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

Shared Quote …

There is a clarity about September … the sun seems brighter, the sky more blue, the white clouds take on marvelous shapes; the moon is a wonderful apparition, rising gold, cooling to silver; and the stars are so big.”

Faith Baldwin

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Image by peng sun from Pixabay 

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Feature Image by ddzphoto from Pixabay 

Birthday Sparks of Joy

The greatest gift of life is friendship, and I have received it.

Hubert H. Humphrey

Hello Friend,

Thank you for the birthday wishes. What a gift it is to have a friend.

I had the most wonderful day. It started with chocolate and ended with Jane Austen. What could be better?

The day began early, with a bite of chocolate that The Cowboy had left under my pillow. Then, I spent two heavenly hours reading and journaling, and an idea began to form – I would spend the day engaging all of my senses. Sight, sound, smell, taste, touch – each of them would get a gift for my birthday.

The sunflowers in my dining room had been there for almost two weeks, but when I came downstairs their sunny faces greeted me as though they knew it was my birthday. And I couldn’t resist stroking their velvety soft petals.

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Before breakfast I made a Cinnamon Swirl Banana Loaf. The dazzling cinnamon-y aroma wafted through the house and settled in to bring us joy all day. Mmmmm …

I had only one thing on my agenda after breakfast: to find earrings for Babe’s wedding (which is one week away!!).

So, I walked into a jewelry store I had never been to before and told them exactly what I was looking for. White gold, dangly, sparkly, and in a certain price range. Within ten minutes I was walking out with a charming package. It seemed almost too quick to fully enjoy the moment. But for me, the joy was in the accomplishment. The fact that I knew precisely what I wanted. And got it!

Best Day Ever!

And now I had even more time to peruse a favourite book store. Because, it’s not a perfect birthday without a trip to the bookstore.

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Which one would you read first?

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Back in the car, Il Divo was playing on the stereo, and I turned up the volume so the music would surround me, go through me, engulf me. So that there was nothing but the music and me.

These voices, though! I get shivers every time.

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In the afternoon, Babe took me for coffee to La Boule Patisserie and Bakery. La Boule specializes in French pastries, Viennoiserie (which I discovered means “things from Vienna”), breads, and confectionary. Not only are the pastries luscious, they are also strikingly beautiful.

I couldn’t choose only one, so Babe generously let me choose two! They are almost too beautiful to taste, but of course I tasted. I tasted! We both highly recommend the Vanilla Bean Sour Cherry Cheesecake. But get there soon, if you’re going. They’re closing this month!

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Babe and I did a little more wedding preparation back at home. We’re down to last minute details now, and it’s all coming together. It’s going to be such a lovely day.

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We ordered in a late supper, and ended the day with the latest Emma movie. Every one is just a little different from the last, but I always recognize the actual quotes from Jane Austen’s book.

You must be the best judge of your own happiness

Jane Austen, Emma

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I went to bed full of gratitude. Every one of my senses had been richly realized because I’d endeavoured to be mindful of them. I thought, how much we miss when we are not attentive to the everyday.

Thank you again dear friend. My life is rich because of you and I thank God for you.

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Of all possessions a friend is the most precious.

Herodotus

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Featured Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay.

Rhubarb Cake and Friluftsliv

Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better.

Albert Einstein

Hello Friend,

Come in, come in. I’ve just taken the rhubarb cake out of the oven and it smells DELICIOUS!

I have one rhubarb plant, and this year it has flourished in all the rain. It’s the first year I’ve had enough rhubarb to bake a whole cake. You have timed your visit perfectly. It’s not raining, and the crushing heat we’ve experienced recently won’t be a problem in this little corner of our digital world. So, let’s sit out on the patio.

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Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay

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I learned a new word this week.

Friluftsliv.

I found it in a home design magazine, and its literal translation from Norwegian is “free air life.” Basically, it’s about being active outdoors, connecting with nature, de-stressing.

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Image by all4web from Pixabay 

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“Friluftsliv isn’t about major treks to remote wilderness – it’s about finding moments in nature no matter where you live.”

Veronique Leblanc, Style at Home

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I like the idea of breathing room that friluftsliv implies. I suppose breathing room is different for everybody; for me it’s wide open spaces where I can see forever. And sky. Lots and lots of sky. That’s the prairie girl in me.

However, I have not been Little Girl on the Prairie for several years now, and I can’t often get out to wide open spaces. So, how do I find that breathing room? How do I practice friluftsliv as life gets busier?

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Image by Waqutiar Rahaman from Pixabay 

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Here in my province, restrictions were fully lifted this week, and I’m sure everyone is anxious to have more breathing room. Not only the breathing room afforded by taking off our masks, but the breathing room that freedom gives. Freedom to go out and do and be, even if you don’t actually go out and do and be. Knowing you have the freedom to do so makes it easier to breathe.

At our house we are entering those final harried weeks pre-wedding. Up until now, all of the uncertainties surrounding the pandemic made our plans flustered and changeable. But suddenly, rock solid plans are in full swing, coming from every-which-where. The usual pre-wedding busy-ness is not usual at all. It’s intensely magnified.

So, I’m repeating the word friluftsliv often, to remind myself that breathing room isn’t only about finding vistas of prairie fields, with far away horizons that separate living skies from lush waving grasses. It’s about “finding moments in nature no matter where you live.” Therefore, I can breathe in the moment of a perfect pink petal in the window boxes of our garden shed.

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Image by RitaE from Pixabay 

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Or take a moment to bask in the warm glow of a tiger lily in my garden bed …

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A lily or a rose never pretends, and its beauty is that it is what it is.

Jiddu Krishnamurti

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Or enjoy rhubarb cake on the patio with a friend, my face lifted to the sun.

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Photo by Melissa Askew on Unsplash

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Not only do these chosen moments help one to breathe easier, they bring a vitality to life that is easily depleted when days get so busy.

Vitality: the capacity for the continuation of a meaningful or purposeful existence, the power to live.

Dictionary.com

Ah, power to live. A meaningful existence. Kind of important, wouldn’t you say?

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Thank you so much for your visit today. Here’s a song packed with vitality to listen to as you go. Close your eyes while you listen, feel the breath fill your lungs and the blood pulse through your veins, and be refreshed.

Dear friend, I wish you vitality and breathing room and many moments of friluftsliv in the coming weeks. See you next time, and stay safe out there.

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Image by Jaesung An from Pixabay 

Land really is the best art.

Andy Warhol

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Featured Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay.