Blankets, Bibs, and Burp Cloths

Blankets, bibs, and burp cloths

We are expecting another baby in our family. Peaches and The Producer are due in June, and Babe has already named the babe Junebug so we don’t have to refer to it as … IT.

But Peaches’ doctor has recently informed us that Junebug will make his or her appearance 3 weeks early … in May.

Now what name? Mayflower? Maybelle? Maybelline? Mayberry? Nope. Junebug will remain.

In light of this impending birth I have been busy sewing for Junebug. I’m praying for him or her with every stitch. Thank heavens I finished the quilt before the doctor made her pronouncement or I’d be in a panic right now.

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Some people look at me weird when I mention that I am sewing for baby. Why sew bibs when you can buy them? And there are such cute ones out there nowadays. I have to say, it has nothing to do with saving money. Have you seen the price of fabric these days??

For one thing, the bibs I make – though maybe not as cute as the bought ones – are the BEST at absorption. Babies are drooly, don’t you know. But that’s not the main reason I’m sewing for baby.

For me, it has to do with love.

Love for my daughter. Love for my grandchild. Love for my Mom, who taught me to sew.

I also love to sew. I am not an accomplished seamstress, but I must love it because nobody in their right mind would continue to sew in the shadow of my mother – a brilliant seamstress, quilter, knitter, crocheter – unless they loved it.

My birthday quilt from Mom
My birthday quilt from Mom

I got my love for sewing from my Mom, who got it from her Mom. I guess you could say it’s a family tradition. It’s also a family tradition to use that love of sewing to clothe and bless your children and grandchildren.

Mom sewed for me as I grew up. Then she sewed blankets and burp cloths while I was expecting. Later, she sewed outfits for my kids, and now she is sewing for my grandchildren – her great grandchildren. She taught me to sew. She taught my daughters to sew.

Little does she know, unless she is reading this, that I still live for her well done.

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The fact is, my sewing is not always well done. This most recent baby quilt, for example, has some mistakes that I wouldn’t have made had I been more accomplished. But to be accomplished one has to spend hours and hours and hours of learning and practice, which I haven’t done and Mom has. Maybe someday I’ll be as good as she is, but I doubt it, because by the time she was my age she was much further along in her sewing accomplishment than I am now.

Still, I sew with the little expertise I have and hope that the love will show through. Meanwhile I’ll learn and grow with each project I work on.

And the family tradition of blessing new babies with bibs, blankets, and burp cloths will live on as I work on them, every stitch swathed in love and prayer.

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To Be Truthful …

 

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I bought the train table for me.

Now before you go jumping to conclusions about what I do in my spare time … let me explain.

Little Man is coming for 10 days while his parents are away. I love him with all the pieces of my heart, and he’s such a good little guy most of the time.

But he’s 2.

And I’m … Well, let’s just say I’m past the half century mark.

I have a bad ankle on my left leg and a bad knee on my right. I’m not moving as quickly as I used to. So I got a little worried about keeping up with this little Force of Nature.

I mean, I’m a fun Grandma. But I can’t be fun all the time.

 

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And so, last time he was here with his mom and we visited a play place, I took note of the almost hour and a half he spent at the train table. He was enthralled with those trains, pushing them along the tracks, over hills and bridges, through tunnels. Connecting all the cars together to make one long train. And he wasn’t the only one. Several kids of many ages were completely engaged in play with the trains.

 

That very afternoon, in anticipation of this coming visit, I went out and bought a train table of my own. I justify the expense by telling myself there will be other grandchildren who will play on it for years to come.

 

HE. WILL. LOVE. IT.

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But it’s really for me.

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My Guest, Meaghan Jackson

 

Meaghan Jackson is my guest writer today.

 

The Power of Gratitude

I wake up feeling the day is already getting ahead of me before I even get out of bed. Tired from a rough night with the baby, my oldest son comes in early just to let me know he is up.

During breakfast the boys are determined to annoy each other. They are loud and I am not in a good mood. I look at the clock and realize we are running late. Honestly I can’t even remember what we were going to be late for (could have been an appointment or play-date). Doesn’t really matter now. I do know that I rushed us through breakfast, hurried to pack our bag for the day, then began herding the boys toward the door. This usually consists of reminders, begging, pleading, and screaming. Finally they are in the car and I realize I’m not ready myself.

Driving down our laneway I wish the day was over. I am weary and tired of being angry all the time. How can I continue on through the whole day like this? There must be something that can get us out of this funk we are in!

There is something.

There is someone.

I stop the car and begin to pray. Of course the boys are screaming for me to turn on the radio and get driving. It is a quick prayer but I know that God understands.

I turn off the radio and address my boys, “Boys we have gotten off to a rough start today. I really need your help to change things around.”

I’ll share with you a secret weapon I have used many times to turn around a bad day. It is called gratitude! So simple, yet so powerful.

At first my boys are waiting for a lecture, or more crazy shouting mommy. But instead I choose to find something good about our day.

“I am thankful we have somewhere to go this morning”

“I am thankful our van works and has gas in it”

“Hey mommy, remember the time the wheel fell off the van? I’m thankful it is back on!”

“I am thankful for our breakfast”

“It’s a nice day out today. Can I be thankful for that?”

We continue chatting while I drive to our destination. Everyone is feeling so much better, friendlier and thankful. Joy is a choice not a feeling. We need to be intentional about fighting off those negative feelings. Sure bad things happen all the time, but there has got to be something worth living for. Some scrap of joy to hold on to.

My boys and I have used this powerful trick many times. They have even had to remind me to be more thankful on occasion. Ann Voskamp’s devotional for her book One Thousand Gifts got me to start writing things down. On particularly rough days when we are feeling down we take a look back at things mommy is thankful for. I know my eldest son appreciates seeing in print how thankful I am for the little things he does.

I think this simple little song by Veggie Tales pretty much sums up the powerful principle of being thankful.

 

The Thankful Song by Veggie Tales

I thank God for this day,
For the sun in the sky,
For my mom and my dad,
For my piece of apple pie!
For our home on the ground,
For His love that’s all around,
That’s why I say thanks every day!
Because a thankful heart is a happy heart
I’m glad for what I have,
That’s an easy way to start!
For the love that He shares,
‘Cause He listens to my prayers,
That’s why I say thanks every day!

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Meaghan Jackson

Meaghan Jackson is a Christian mom with wonderful young boys and a fabulous husband. She loves all crafts, baking, and blogging. They are a homeschooling family and look forward to sharing this journey with you at http://joyfulmudpuddles.blogspot.ca

Oh for the Love of Disney

I posted this article way back in 2014 on my other blog, now defunct. But as I was culling through old posts I realized this one was too good not to share again:

 

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My husband loves my convertible. It is my car but … he picked it out & I okayed it. When we were looking for a car for me and he suggested I needed a convertible, I questioned what in the world I needed one of those for. But we got the convertible. He asks for my permission whenever he wants to drive it — which is frequently.

However, apparently I’m not the coolest convertible owner. Yes I drive around with the top down. But the music pealing from my CD player is not ACDC, The Rolling Stones, Queens of the Stone Age or even Beyonce. It is Mendelssohn, Chopin, Mozart. My music is not conducive to revving engines.

Occasionally I throw in other fun music, like singer/songwriter type stuff or soundtracks from movies. I recently purchased 2 complete albums of music from the 1920’s.

Picture this: Hubby borrows my car and drives around town with the top down, enjoying the weather and the great car. While stopped at a red light he notices pedestrians looking at him oddly. He is used to people nodding in appreciation of a cool car. He knows those looks. These are different.

Suddenly he takes note of the music blaring from the CD player (because when you drive a convertible you must blare music — it is an unwritten rule). My husband is a big guy, a skilled businessman, and a cowboy at heart – not a wimp in the least. But what he realizes he is proclaiming to the world in this humiliating moment is … the theme from Disney’s         A Bug’s Life.

Was a bug, little bug, hardly there
How he felt, what he dreamed, who could care?
Without any evidence
(His flaws were many)
He was full of confidence
(Some people haven’t any)
Didn’t have much common sense
(It’s highly over-rated)
He just knew that he’d come through
It’s the time of your life so live it well

Oh yes my dear, it IS the time of your life. And while you’re living it well, maybe take along some of your own CD’s.

 

 

Lyrics for “The Time of Your Life” written by Randy Newman